Saturday, June 11, 2011

Post From Under the Rock

pic found at bellydanceforbirth.com
I have no patience these days and absolutely no patience for writing. Every time I sit down to do a blog post I say "meh" and go do something else. So I'll condense.

Here's What's Going on in My Little Corner

1. Well, the biggest news is....I'm pregnant! I am very happy and feel very at peace. We have been debating a third child for some time and since this was a surprise, I am guessin this one wants to be here. :) But I already have mom-brain. For those of you who don't have kids that is when during pregnancy and for about 8 months after you are dumb. Putting the remote in the refrigerator and the cheese on the mantel dumb. Hey, my body is making a person. I apparently don't have time to think.

2. They think they got all the cancer in my husband. They took 8 lymph nodes, a large chunk of his arm, ( looks like a shark bite), and a skin graft from his leg ( which surprisingly hurts him the most right now. It doesn't help that the nurses keep calling it the "donor site"....creepy). When he is not on his "happy pills" he is hobbling around, and looks pretty pitiful. The whole thing has been a huge strain,and I am relieved ( knock on wood) that we are on the way to recovery. But the past month and a half has been a blur. The only cool thing is the outpouring of creativity from my family and my husband and I as we come up with awesome stories to explain the large chunk of his arm that is missing. My brother wrote this concerning the wound...

i told garey busey his genetic self-experiments with sharkbearwolf blood would end badly. ......... From that day henceforth the mutated bite wound became self-aware. Later describing itself as "The Singularity". Realizing that non-bite marked humans (what the Singularity would come to emotionally refer to as "fleshy abominations") were at a disadvantage, the singularity set out every full moon to systematically exterminate all "inferior beings". ............also........ you can put M&Ms and shit in there


Yeah, we are all sort of nuts. In a good way. in a fun way.

3. Two kids, and one on the way. Burgeoning writing career. Husband in cancer-recovery. Yeah, it is an understatement to say that bellydance will be on the back burner for a while. Sucks in a way, but not at all in another way. When you have been dancing as long as I have, bellydance never really exits your life, it is such a part. But it shifts....and it is shiftin' again. I have never been one of those people that goes to every workshop, show etc., but now I am goin' to none. It is an adjustment, but I'd say I am o.k. with the trade off.

4. I am having major issues leaving comments on all of my readers blogs. For some reason it will let me do it half of the time. So yeah, I read everyone's blog, and I want to comment. For now I will just have to read your posts and comment in my mind.

5. Bellydancing feels so GOOD on my pregnant body. Just some soft undulations and some small tight shimmies really relieves the back pain I am already feeling. Yay, bellydance!

Lator gators.....

7 comments:

Lilith Noor said...

Wow, those are some pretty life-changing events there! Congratulations on the incubating jellybean, when are you due?

Glad to hear your husband appears to have the all-clear. The silly jokes sound very much like something my family would do. I have a couple of scars that were apparently gained from losing a fight with a particularly vicious goldfish!

Foxy said...

CONGRATSSSSSSSSSS Kali! Ah a little babba on the way- that's awesome! So glad things seem to be going a bit better with you. Keep us updated on everything that happens (I for one dont mind if The Belly Whisperer temporarily becomes The Baby Whisperer!) xx

Naima said...

Happy Lucky Cow Bang Soda Candy vibes your way!

Tempest said...

Trying this again, b/c I couldn't get it to post the other day - much congratulations on both the new life and renewed life! Lots of positive thoughts your way :)

Kis said...

Congratulations!! That's exciting news.

The Raqasa said...

Hurrah! This is the awesome-est post ever! Much love to you and the family (though I've never met any of you and that therefore probably sounds quite creepy ...) x

RetroKali said...

Thanks everyone!
Raqasa- not at all creepy....cool.
Naima- you have blessed the baby with the utmost of blessings
Lilith- The jellybean incubates till february 8th....an aquarius unfortunately...:)
Foxy- Other people writing about their kids in highly irritating, so it might be a snippet here and there, but no Baby Whisperer...
Tempest and Kis- Thanks!

June 18, 2011 3:00 PM